Post by Chastity on Jan 2, 2005 13:16:12 GMT -5
kaffia said:
well then kick your boyfriends ass (or better, kick him in the nuts!!!!!)!!! if he cheats on u then he is a fucking ass! i hope u break up with him soon even if it could be hard..just remember that u are a beautiful person in every way and that you will always have us here to support u!
stay strong chas!
*hug*
*hug* Aww. Kaffia, thanks for your kind words. Don't worry, I spent New Years with a bunch of single people. I didn't do that for nothing.
Anyways, Fred is 26, I am 20. Sometimes I forget that he is 26 because of how immature he can be. He cheated on me because he was mad at me for my so called "cheating" incident (everybody I tell the story to says I didn't cheat). He was doing it to be vengeful. He could've just talked to me about how he felt on a constant basis until an understanding would be reached. Instead, he chose to carry that anger for months and decided to make out with some chick on Christmas Eve while I stayed at home and typed "....I'm too loyal to my boyfriend to cheat on him..."
Also, Fred was very insecure. He hated how I had a lot of guy friends. I can understand if I did something sexually with the majority of them but that wasn't even the case. I don't even see why he should see them as a threat considering I never even made out with them--except for one guy friend who isn't really a guy friend anymore anyway. He also hated how I always talked about my guy friends. He wasn't a jealous or controlling guy because he let me do whatever I want but at the same time it was always "who's [insert guy friend's name]? Where did you meet him? How do you know him?"
I'm not going to deny it. Fred is a nice guy. That's his problem though. He doesn't want to hurt anyone's feelings to the point where he does because he's dishonest. He's even dishonest with himself. That's why he appears to be a jerk.